A wreath I made for my door 💛

Apr. 22nd, 2026 02:20 pm
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Posted by /u/TheSoftEclipse

A wreath I made for my door 💛

The star represents that I trust my path, the butterfly symbolizes that I allow myself to grow without rushing, I placed a seashell scolecite in the center to represent how serene I keep my inner world, my inner waters are safe and calm(I’m a Scorpio sun/Cancer moon). The pale blue ribbon symbolizes that I speak gently and truthfully☀️

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Posted by Rae Deng

Some social media users worried that the reported forthcoming executive order could prevent married women from having bank accounts.
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Posted by Rae Deng

The journalist behind the original 1980s news story, Joe Conason, said his reporting for the article "was extensive and thorough."
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Posted by /u/Responsible-Survivor

Hi all, so I've got a growing crystal collection I want to start taking out with me wherever I go. I know that it's ideal to bring your tarot deck with you wherever you go as well so that it gets familiar with your energy.

I want to make a bag that is ideal for all the witchy things. From practical (hair scrunchies, bandaids, pads, meds, etc) to magical (crystals, herb satchets, vials of moon water, tarot decks, etc) what are the things you would want to store in an ideal witch bag?

And then ideas for function - what would make the ideal witch bag functional? I'm thinking secret pockets for rotating through the crystals and dried plants satchets so far, but I want to hear what additional ideas you have!

(It will definitely have a protective pocket for a book, my books always get damaged in my other bags)And lastly, anything you think might be fun to see design wise on the outside of the bag! (Black cats and moons and stars and suns are a given 😊)

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Links: Quilting, Podcasts, & More

Apr. 22nd, 2026 08:00 am
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Posted by Amanda

An illustrated image of a desk space with a computer, stack of books, reading glasses, and a mug.Happy Wednesday!

Thank you for all the birthday wishes. It was a very chill day. My partner bought me one of those Kindle/phone/gaming stands, that will prop your device up in front of your face, leaving you with the ability to snuggle under the blankets with your controller or page turner.

Also how did April go by so quickly?

Sarah: I was a guest on the Reading Smut podcast, a new romance-focused show from the hosts of Reading Glasses.

Last year’s Cherrywood Quilting Challenge was themed “the abyss.” They have a virtual gallery of all the amazing entries, and a calendar for the traveling exhibit. Some beautiful work on display! The 2026 challenge has started and the theme is “storytime.”

Pam G. sent in this link on “Labyrinth: Muppets, Bowie, and the Pain of Impending Adulthood.” It’s very much in our house of wheels.

Lastly, Sarah and I were having a similar discussion about reading levels and romance, AND LO AND BEHOLD, this popped into my Reddit feed. It’s such an interesting convo around historical romances and anti-intellectualism.

Don’t forget to share what cool or interesting things you’ve seen, read, or listened to this week! And if you have anything you think we’d like to post on a future Wednesday Links, send it my way!

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Posted by Carrie S

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If you want to have a little extra fun, be a little more yourself, and be part of keeping the site open for everyone in the future, we can’t wait to see you in our new subscription-based section with exclusive content and events.

Everything you’re used to seeing at the Hot Pink Palace that is Smart Bitches Trashy Books will remain free as always, because we remain committed to fostering community among brilliant readers who love romance.

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Fandom: Stargate Atlantis
Characters/Pairings: John Sheppard/Rodney McKay, Elizabeth Weir, Teyla Emmagan, Radek Zelenka
Rating: Mature
Length: 13,319
Content Notes: no AO3 warnings apply
Creator Links: Rachael Sabotini on AO3
Themes: Arranged marriage, AU - royalty, Diplomatic marriage, Politics, Mutual pining

Summary: "It is your duty to the empire to marry Rodney McKay."

Reccer's Notes: This is an interesting romantic romp set in a somewhat steampunk AU where John is married off by his cousin the empress Elizabeth, to Rodney, a leader in the neighbouring nation. John is part of treaty agreements to negotiate peace. Consummating his marriage proves difficult due to Rodney being a workaholic, anxious about never having had sex with a man before, and, that common marriage of convenience trope, as John can end the marriage after a year and a day if he chooses. There are obstacles and pining and inadequate communication, but eventually John makes a place for himself in Rodney's labs, proves his loyalty, and we get the happy ending. A fun read!

Fanwork Links: The Spare

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Posted by /u/Blue0Axolotl

Hi, my beautiful witches <3.

This is my first post.

I have an ex who's been spreading false rumors about me. We broke up over a year ago, recently I heard some rumors about me that I know he started. I'm thinking of taking legal actions, currently I'm gathering binding information for the case, and I also want to know any spells to send back to him the bad energy he's brought to me. This situation sickens me, and justice is slow. Please I need advice from you about any protection or counter spell I can use to feel some peace of mind. Ty, love yall. <3

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Posted by /u/SpecialLeopard5

i’m not sure if i used the right flair so im sorry if i didnt

ok so a while back i (f25) had a very intense dream of me sitting on my knees in a dark room next to a lit fireplace. i could feel a presence watching me but i didn’t know who or what it was, didn’t see it, and wasn’t afraid of it. infront of me was a dead white rabbit. all i could think in the dream is that i need its foot to carry with me for good luck. the entire dream was me staring at this dead rabbit trying to decide if i should cut off its foot. i decided not to because i felt it was disrespectful to the rabbit and that the presence watching me would judge me harshly. the dream ended at that.

a few weeks after that im on a date with this girl (f27) i started seeing, i tell her about my dream- we connect with it because she actually has a rabbit foot. at the end of the date, she hands me the rabbits foot she had and said “i hope you find the luck you’re running away from”.

things have gotten BAD since i’ve gotten it. my whole life is currently being uprooted. i noticed that when i have it on my bag and wear it, it is a particularly very bad day and that’s usually when the big trauma bad things happen. like i had it on my bag last week and that same day i lost my relationship with my sisters and future housing- and those literally aren’t even the biggest things that have happened. i need to somehow get rid of it or rid it of its bad luck but im not sure how to do it because when i look into it theres so many different answers.

important to say i dont think she had any bad intentions at all, i think theres something weird with me and maybe im not supposed to have it? i thought of giving it back but i dont want to be rude. me and this girl are no longer dating anymore but we are on good terms and never had any bad/weird things happen to or between us. i had to end things with her because of how crazy my life was getting.

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Posted by /u/OnyxStarzz

So my friend basically abandoned me and I have to spend 4 hours with him bcs of classes. I'm planning to veil, wear multiple evil eyes and wear christals. Do any of you know any more protection based stuff? I could also pray to Lady Aphrodite to protect me but he's also a witch and I don't wanna be hexed. I seriously need help bcs I just got out of a mental health crisis and it's currently pretty risky that I'm falling back in.

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Posted by /u/sadshadowartist

Spiritual Realization: Currently there is a cathartic cultural shift and divine feminine enlightenment. Changed moon 🌙 cycles.

Can anyone else feel it?...( I would have made my flair be "crones" but I don't know if im considered that.) I am 38, had fallopean tubes removed last year, thankfully for that overall, anyway

I used to have a White Moon Cycle which is when my period would fall on the New moon, but lately it has shifted to the Full moon. I see this as positive yet cathartic. I am getting back to basics, learning to garden, grow food, medicinal herbs, and making greener meals. I used to be driven by capitalism and wasted more food and resources, focused mainly on just pleasing others.

Then I changed my major from Human services to General studies, which is cool because now I get to take oral communication and technology electives so everything worked out...

I am gardening and cooking more. But i dont have community or friends. That I am still lacking and not good at making friends, bur i have my kids and partner. Can anyone relate or offer any insight on this topic of moon cycles affecting your mood and inspiring you in any way, good or bad? Are you feeling that "back to the earth" type vibe lately?

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Posted by /u/Vegetable_Guess8296

Hello!! I am new here and I wish to talk a bit

( The Bocio from the fon people can ensure health, well being and safety, they can also represent people who were sold into slavery )

It is a thing that I noticed a bit in spaces about witchcraft — how voodoo is misinterpreted. You can pratice voodoo and also witchcraft but voodoo isn’t inherently witchcraft, it is a religion. Voodoo is praticed in Louisiana and also the Caribbean, it blend Vodun, Yoruba, Christianity and bakongo religion, results of slavery. It being considered as inherently witchcraft is a colonial stereotype meant to demonise black people’s traditional religion. Fun fact, voodoo dolls aren’t actually supposed to thrown harm/spells at someone, they actually represent deities, protection and during Jim Crows laws, they were used as a healing method since black Americans didnt have access to healthcare. Voodoo dolls being harmful is actually a pop culture stereotype that come from Hollywood.

I am of Beninese ethnicity ( I am Fon more specifically ) and Vodun, which is considered the indigenous pratice, came from us but it also a mix of other gbe people and Yoruba pratices. Here is an example of deities from Vodun :

Mawu-Lisa : Mawu and Lisa are dualistic deities, they can also be represented as one androgynous/agender being. Mawu is the Vodun ( she is a goddess) of the Moon and Lisa ( he is a god ) is the vodun of the Moon. Mawu is the creator of earth and life, she is also created humans with clay. Lisa was tasked with civilising them.

Mami Dan/Wata : She is the Vodun of water and beaches. She also represent love and beauty. She can bring wealth and happiness and can solve infertility and infant mortality.

Dan Houedo : Also now as the Rainbow snake, Dan is the vodun of snakes, rainbow, wind, thunder and many other things. She represent continuity of life. Dan helped Mawu to create earth by trusting it into the sky.

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Posted by /u/ParticularWindoww

Cleaning a messy room/house can be extremely overwhelming. Not only do I have a comorbidity of AuDHD but I also grew up with a hoarder for a mother. I never really learned cleaning skills from my mom. My ADHD made it hard to put things away. My autism made me get extremely overwhelmed to the point of breakdown.

So when I started therapy for both of these, my therapist came over to my house and taught me how to clean with these tips.

  1. do not put something down unless it is in its spot. Take the extra time to walk away and put it where it’s supposed to go. If you put it down just anywhere, it is a death sentence.
  2. take a lot of breaks. This is called the on/off method. Find a point of completion (you can make your own rules). Take however much time you spent working on that task and use the same amount for your break. Whether it be tv, video games, or even playing with the stuff you found. For example, if you spend 30 minutes on the task, spend 30 minutes off the task. Make sure you have regular and frequent breaks. You need to be stimulated.
  3. categorize your things in an easy way and make that your only task. For example, I always start with dishes. Find all the dishes. Put them in the sink. You do not need to do the dishes right away. You can do them another day. Then I find all the trash I can see and throw it away. Already, your room will start to look cleaner. Next, do clothes. Put them in the hamper. You do not have to do laundry right away. You can do it another day. Then I pick items by color. I usually start with red. I pick up everything that is red and put it away where it is supposed to go. Then orange. Then yellow. Etc.
  4. clean with the supplies you have available. If you are out of glass cleaner, write it down in your notes app but do not go out and get it. You can use it next time when you have it. Leaving the house to get cleaning supplies is a stimulating but avoidant activity. You’ll waste your drive to clean by going to the store.
  5. One “baseline task” per day Make bed, wash 1 dish, read 1 page. (Anchor Activities which i have to do daily no matter what. I use Soothfy App to build these alongside novelty Activities. ) This rebuilt the reward system from the bottom up. None of this fixed everything instantly… but after 10–14 days, I started feeling tiny sparks again. Like my brain was slowly coming back online.
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Posted by Mitch Stoltz

People building the future of the social web — interoperable and decentralized — need to protect themselves against copyright liability. Like anyone who creates and operates platforms for user-uploaded content, the hosts of the decentralized social web can take preventive measures to reduce their legal exposure when a user posts material that violates someone’s copyright.

This post gives an overview of the steps to take. It’s meant for operators of Mastodon and other ActivityPub servers, Bluesky hosts, RSS mirrors, and other decentralized social media protocols, and developers of apps for those protocols — but it will apply to other hosts as well. This isn’t legal advice, and can’t substitute for a consultation with a lawyer about your specific circumstances. It focuses on U.S. law — the law may impose different requirements elsewhere. Still, we hope it helps you get started with confidence.

Why should I care? Copyright’s Sword of Damocles

In some circumstances, the operator of a platform that handles user content can be legally responsible for content that infringes copyright. That can happen when the platform operator is directly involved in copying or distributing the copyrighted material, when they promote or knowingly assist the infringement, or when they benefit financially from infringement while being in a position to supervise it. But these judge-made rules are often difficult and uncertain to apply in practice — and the penalties for being found on the wrong side of the law can be severe. Copyright’s “statutory damages” regime allows for massive, unpredictable financial liability. That’s why it’s important to limit your risk.

For Server Operators: Limiting Risk with the DMCA Safe Harbors

If you run a social network server, the safe harbor provisions of the Digital Millennium Copyright Act (DMCA) are an important way to limit your liability risk. The DMCA shields server operators from nearly all forms of copyright liability that can result from “storage at the direction of a user” — in other words, hosting user-uploaded content. But to qualify for this protection, there are steps a server operator has to take.

1. Designate A Contact To Receive Copyright Infringement Notices

First, you’ll need to provide contact information for someone who can receive infringement notices (a “designated agent”). That information needs to be posted in at least two places: on your server in a place visible to users (such as a “DMCA” page or post, or as part of your Terms of Service), and in the U.S. Copyright Office’s “Designated Agent Directory.” To post that information to the directory, you have to create an account at https://www.copyright.gov/dmca-directory/ and pay a small fee. The directory listings expire after three years, and once expired, your safe harbor protection goes away, so it’s important to keep that listing current.

2. Respond Promptly to Notices and Counter-notices

When you receive infringement notices, it’s important to respond to them promptly. Notices are supposed to identify the copyright holder, the copyrighted work they claim was infringed, and the post they claim is infringing. By deleting or disabling access to the posted material, you protect yourself from liability with respect to that material.

The theory behind Section 512 is that hosts don’t have to be in a position of deciding whether a post infringes someone’s copyright — it’s up to the poster, the rights holder, and potentially a court to decide that. A host who takes down posts whenever they receive an infringement notice is well-protected. But it’s equally important to recognize that hosts aren’t required to take down content in response to every notice. Infringement notices are frequently wrong, misguided, or abusive, or simply incomplete. Hosts who want to stand up for their users’ speech can choose to disregard infringement notices that seem suspect. While this risks losing the automatic protection of the safe harbor in each instance, it can still be done safely with careful preparation, ideally using a plan crafted with help from a lawyer. Bear in mind that people sending false notices, including by failing to consider whether a post is a fair use before asking a host to take it down, can be liable for damages under the DMCA.

The DMCA also allows the person who posted the material to send a “counter-notification” asserting that they really did have the right to post and that there’s no copyright infringement. Responding to counter-notifications is a good way for a host to demonstrate that they look out for their users. When a host receives a counter-notification, they should forward it on to the person who sent the original takedown notice and let them know that the post will be restored in 10 business days. Then, after that waiting period has elapsed, the host can restore the posted material. Just like with infringement notices, a host isn’t required to honor a counter-notification that appears to be fraudulent, but there’s no penalty for honoring it anyway.

3. Have A Repeat Infringer Policy

The next requirement is to have a policy of terminating the accounts of “subscribers and account holders” who are “repeat infringers” in “appropriate circumstances,” and to carry out that policy. Yes, that’s a vague requirement. It doesn’t require a “three strikes” policy or any other sports analogy. It just needs to be reasonable. Be sure your policy is spelled out in your website terms or “DMCA” page.

4. Don’t Ignore Known Infringement

Hosts need to take down user posts whenever the host actually knows that the post is infringing. In other words, a host isn’t protected if they ignore takedown notices based on technicalities in the notices, or if they learn about the infringement some other way. But hosts don’t need to actively look for infringement on their servers — only to act when someone notifies them.

5. Don’t Encourage Infringement

Finally, make sure that nothing you post or advertise actively encourages copyright infringement. For example, don’t post examples of users uploading copyrighted music or video without permission, or insinuate that your server is a good place for infringing content.

There are some other technicalities in the DMCA that can affect the safe harbor, which is why it’s always a good idea to consult with a lawyer. But following these steps will help protect you when you run a social media server — or any other kind of user-uploaded content platform.

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